Blossom of memory

Victorian Mourning Ring in Gold with Enamel & Diamond, circa 1850

Did you know that in Victorian times it was customary to give guests at a funeral a gold ring to commemorate the person who had died? The mourning rules of the society of that time prescribed exactly which clothes could be worn in times of mourning and also the pieces of jewellery that could be worn in times of mourning were subject to strict rules. This led already in the middle of the 19th century to a flourishing industry for mourning jewellery, which could be ordered even in high-quality form via catalogues. We are reminded of this by the numerous mourning rings that can still be found in many English families today, and which can sometimes be dated precisely because of the engravings, inscriptions and hallmarks. Often the issue of mourning rings was specified in advance in the will and the rings ordered while the deceased was still alive. In the event of a surprise death, the heirs would take care of ordering the appropriate rings. The British Library has preserved numerous wills specifying the issue of rings - and often the number was astonishingly large, sometimes more than 70 rings of the same design were ordered! The ring here is another such jewel, probably presented at a funeral service in the 1850s. In gold letters against a black background we read "IN MEMORY OF" in bold serif type on the ring band. A flower, also formed of black enamel, represents a forget-me-not, the center of which is adorned by a diamond. The inside of the ring rail shows remnants of an engraving that is unfortunately no longer legible today. However, this ring came to us with an identical ring where the inscription is still legible and which also shows a London Hallmark of 1853. The other ring, which you can also find in our online shop, says inside: "My dear fried Hellen Flette /who died at 8th October 1852, aged 28". So we know that this ring as well as again the other ring was given to a friend of the deceased Helen, who were probably sisters. The diamond setting makes the ring a rather precious piece of jewellery, cheaper models usually set pearls or do without precious stones. It can therefore be assumed that the wearer of the ring was very close to her friend. We found the ring and its counterpart in London, the place where they were made.

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We want you to be 100% satisfied! That’s why we examine, describe and photograph all our jewellery with the utmost care.

If for any reason you are still not satisfied, contact us and we will find a mutual solution immediately. Regardless, you can return any item within 30 days and we will refund you the full purchase price.